Unity by Insult and Force

He say
I know you
You know me
One thing I can tell you
Is you got to be free
--The Beatles

Many people wax poetic about the need for us to 'come together' in one breath, and then accuse others of racism, bigotry, selfishness, et al in the next. It is difficult to understand how unity is achieved through insult.

Many of those same people also seek to employ the strong arm of government to force others to comply with their wishes.

How unity is achieved through use of aggression is even more perplexing.